What is the best marriage preparation for men?
A recent article discusses marriage preparation for future couples interested in tying the knot. The central theme for the article is the necessity of commitment on the part of both the future husband and wife. Both individuals need to understand that as time is accumulated in the marriage people to grow which can become the catalyst for an unhappy marriage leading to divorce.
According to the article, when love is in the air, couples do not take the time to ensure that they should become married to that individual. Instead of some type of pre-marital counseling the article recommends resolve the following issues:
- Children
- In-laws
- Work
- Money
- Friendships
- Sexuality
- Separateness and togetherness
- Privacy
This is a difficult marriage preparation system for men due to the lack of fundamental experiences that teach them the role of men in the marriage. According to Dr. Phil, men who desire to be successful in their marriage and family life, they have to change and broaden their definition of what it means to be successful as a man. Being a good provider, protector, leader and teacher is a privilege that comes with responsibilities that many men aren’t aware of.
The best marriage preparation system for men is outlined in the Holy Bible. The first man in the bible who was married is Adam. So if men are going to follow the best marriage preparation system they must follow the same pattern that Adam followed before he was joined with his wife Eve.
Adam is the first man who was created on the sixth day by God – The Father of Jesus Christ. Adam was created (not born) a perfect man in body and spirit, but as innocent and completely inexperienced as a child. The man Adam was placed in a garden which the Lord God had planted “eastward in Eden,” for the purpose of dressing it and keeping it.
Dressing and keeping the Garden of Eden was Adams original purpose which is the primary foundation of marriage preparation for men. The word ‘dress’ in the Hebrew is ‘abad, which means to work as a servant. The word ‘keep’ in the Hebrew is shamar, which means to protect. God placed Adam in the Garden of Eden to work as a servant in the garden and to protect the garden. Protecting the garden required that Adam become the steward of the garden. God granted Adam stewardship over the Garden of Eden.
The best marriage preparation for men is to become a servant to God and a good steward over the resources that He provides.
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